Colliding with Control at Home
Control seems to be a common theme and dare I say goal among all the officers I work with and a common complaint among those married to them. It translates to my own relationship as well as my friends who are in the field. So, let’s look at control and how the positive attribute/ability for one partner hurts the other partner so greatly.
Why He Doesn’t Share His Day
As a new officer, my husband shared a lot about his shift. Every day was something new and it was exciting to him to be involved in situations at work. He would often come home and tell me what had happened. As time went on, he shared less and less.
4 Attitudes That Can Impact Your Relationship
There are times in our relationship that we may not know the territory but we are unwilling to open ourselves up to exploring that territory. This might be due to fear or an unwillingness to accept something about ourselves. Whatever that may be, we stand unwilling to see the other person’s side because we are so busy protecting ourselves.